10 Things I Wish They Taught Us in High School (That Would Make Buying a Home in Bakersfield So Much Easier)

10 Things I Wish They Taught Us in High School (That Would Make Buying a Home in Bakersfield So Much Easier)

It’s funny how school teaches us to solve for x, but not how to boost our credit score or budget for a down payment. As a local Realtor in Bakersfield who’s helped hundreds of families buy homes, I’ve seen firsthand how small habits picked up early can delay (or completely block) someone’s dream of homeownership.

Whether you’re buying your first home in Bakersfield, planning for the future, or just want to set your kids up with better habits than we had — here are 10 things I wish they taught us in high school before we picked up habits that can make buying a home harder later on.

1. How credit really works

One late payment on a $25 bill can linger on your credit report for years. That tiny slip could be the difference between qualifying for a great mortgage rate and paying thousands more over the life of your loan. You must be smart and only use credit cards as a strategic tool to build credit, not to buy things you cannot afford. 

2. Why driving a modest car is smarter

Dealers are happy to approve you for a massive car loan. But a big monthly payment can lower how much home you qualify for. Trust me, no one at your backyard BBQ cares what you drive — they’ll be more impressed when you invite them over to your house. Buy the used modest car to get you from A to B! 

3. That vacations on credit cards just delay bigger goals

It feels amazing to book that trip to Hawaii or splurge on shopping, but putting it on credit racks up balances that work against you when a lender calculates what you can afford. Please understand that people that you see vacationing and living lavish, and have massive credit card debt. Don't be one of those people! 

4. The power of an emergency fund

In Bakersfield, unexpected car repairs in 100-degree heat aren’t a maybe — they’re inevitable. Having even a small cushion means you won’t have to rely on high-interest debt when life happens. 

5. Your first home doesn’t have to be your dream home

Start with what you can afford. Build equity. Move up later. Most people don’t buy their forever home first — it’s usually their second or third. 

6. Why co-signing can wreck your buying power

It’s kind to help a friend or family member, but if they miss payments, your credit pays the price. That can postpone your ability to buy your own home.

7. How switching jobs can slow down your timeline

Job hopping or becoming self-employed is great for growth, but lenders look for stable income. A new job (or 1099 work) often means you’ll need to wait longer to qualify.

8. That even small collections matter

That old unpaid phone bill or medical charge you forgot about? It can drag your score down significantly, even if it’s just $75. Keep a close eye on your credit. I mean really your credit is only good for big urchases like a House or car and the house should be your main focus. 

9. Why “saving for a house” means lifestyle shifts

Buying a home often requires trade-offs — maybe fewer dinners out on Stockdale Hwy, less fancy coffee and brunch spots or skipping new designer bags. But that down payment will thank you later. And guess what! If you play your cards right, you only have to save for your down payment once! You can use your house as your down when you decide to sell and buy your move up home. 

10. The heartbreak of house hunting without pre-approval

Falling in love with a home before you know what you can afford is the fastest way to heartbreak. Always get pre-approved so you’re ready when the right Bakersfield house comes up. Your pre-approval not only says " hey I can afford this house" but it also gives you a very clear picture of what you qualify for, how much money you will need for your down payment and closing costs and what your estimated mortgage payment will be. ps. you do not have to buy at your max! Buy where you are comfortable. 

BONUS TIPS:

How to build your credit, save money, and take advantage of first-time buyer programs

The good news? You can still set yourself up for success — even if you didn’t learn this in school.

• Building credit: Pay every bill on time, keep credit card balances low (under 30% of the limit), and avoid applying for new credit too often.

• Saving money: Automate transfers to a separate savings account every payday. Even small amounts add up. Cut back on non-essentials and redirect that cash into your future home.

• Use first-time buyer programs: In Bakersfield, there are special loans and grants that can help with down payment or closing costs. FHA, CalHFA, and even local down payment assistance programs can make buying your first home easier.

Ready to make smart moves toward owning a home in Bakersfield?

If you’re thinking about buying now or just want to set up a plan for the future, I’d love to help. Let’s build a strategy so you’re ready when the time is right.

👉 Have questions? Want to know how much house you can afford? Shoot me a message anytime.

Monique Diaz

Realtor® CalDRE 01506717

661-304-6078

👷🏻‍♀️New Construction Specialist

Over 17 New Builds Represented in 2024

Bakersfield Real Estate Group

at Watson

https://moniquediaz.bakersfieldishome.com

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